There are many phases in our lives where we experience certain emotions. Falling in love is one of them. It is totally okay to fall in love but falling for the wrong person is not okay at all. It could be the most unpleasant experience you can ever have. It could be fatal for both of persons who are involved in it. It can break both people bitterly. An important point should be noted here is that it is not necessary that two great people can always be right for each other. So never take such big decision on the basis of how much a person is generally sweet, smart or perfect. Ask yourself how much he or she is right for you. Here are some signs by which you will come to know where your relationship is heading. Will it be fruitful for you in a long-term? Or will it tear you apart?
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Here are some signs of untrue love. Whenever you experience any of them, tell yourself to move on as soon as possible. Embrace this reality that you two are not meant to be together.And then deal with this situation very strategically and wisely.
1) You two don’t have any Chemistry:
When two people meet each other, Initially they get attracted to each other. You both perceive each other according to the perceptions that you possess for your Mr right. But what actually happens, as time passes that attraction fades away. You two then don’t look to each other that way. You don’t have any chemistry between each other. So don’t run for such decisions very quickly. It will not be fruitful for the long run.
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2)Your partner never compliments you:
It is a true fact that you don’t compliment each other. Because you don’t feel for each other that way anymore. A true love remains last and maintains it’s spark. The two people have much to offer to each other. But where love doesn’t exist, the small little things like embracing each other or complimenting each other is never there.When you don’t feel that spark, your instincts are telling you to terminate this relationship.
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3) Spontaneity is not there:
When there is no love, there is no spontaneity. You two will not connect with each other naturally and impulsively. You have to work hard which will soon drain your energy. It can lead you both to the state of nothingness. You will always feel the void inside you and a huge gap that can never be overcome. So when you find things not happening spontaneously , just part your ways .
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4)Communication is Not there :
When two people are not meant for each other, they cannot even communicate. There is a great communication gap between you two. You both have certain reservations from each other. You cannot speak your Mind and heart out.You have to think hundreds of times about what to say and how to say it. With the right person ,you can say anything at any time and space. But with wrong person,it is as hard to communicate as walking on ice. When you find this, it’s time to call off the relationship.
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5). You have to explain them to others:
When you started to get worried about your partner’s behaviors, every one can see it. Family and Friends may ask you what happened? Is everything all right between you two? Why are you both so distant to each other ?In daily life , you can face such situations. Have you asked about their strange behaviors from your close friends instead of asking them ?Why he behaves in a certain way? Why is he so distant? Why he doesn’t give me time etc. So if your love is true then you don’t have to ask these questions to anyone. Because you will not encounter such situation.But when you do then think about it.
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6) Priorities are different:
You two have communication gap and lack of spontaneity just because you two are poles apart. You two belongs to the different world. You two have nothing in common . Your choices are different. From your priorities to you expectations, nothing is bringing you on the same page. So the biggest mistake you can do in a relationship is to create or change something which cannot be created or changed. So don’t push yourself to adjust in each others shoe and make your self even more vulnerable. Just end it with respect.
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7) You both belong some where else:
When you both don’t have spontaneity and spark, it means you both belong somewhere else. We often fail to understand this thing. So when we don’t feel for each other that way, chances of cheating multiplies. You started to look for other person and can face such situation where you have been accused of cheating on each other or you lack strength of fidelity.So instead of accusing each other or abusing , part your ways respectfully by talk it out .
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8)You don’t see each other together:
When you are with the wrong person you will not find spontaneity, communication ,and connection. So it is obvious that you two will not be together with each other either. After getting every aware of everything, can you still think of being together? Realize this thing that you cannot go far because you are not meant to be together. 
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So in the end, it is your choice that what you want to choose. How you set your standards? How you priorities things in your life? Once you will become decisive about it, chances of making wrong decisions may decrease. You will not suffer anymore or trying to abuse other person emotionally. In the end chances of suffering will get less.So whenever you decide to make someone your priority, choose humbly and wisely.
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