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Be a Good Man, Because A Woman Never Forgets How You Treated Her

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People often believe, wrongly so that women fall for assholes. You may have had a few bad experiences which taint your perception that women actually find men who treat them badly attractive. However, you cannot be more wrong about this conception.

1. She needs your time:

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Men are often careless in the way they interact with women and it can take a toll on their relationship that will last a lifetime. That thing you said about her mother, a comment on her appearance in bad taste, the time you ignored her opinion on a matter, the time you told her she was being overly dramatic when she was upset about something instead of listening to her, the time you made fun of her friends, were not supportive of her career or the time you were just a class A jerk.

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These things will not only make her dump your ass in a flash it will have an effect on her future relationships as well. She will find it hard to trust another person again.

2. They remember everything:

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Women are more observant of the little actions that people do as they tend to be more emotionally intelligent than men. If you are good to her, then even if things do not work out between you in the long run, she will hold your memory in her heart with tenderness.

3. Learn to Empathize With Her:

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She will remember and cherish the intimate and beautiful moments you two shared. She will remember how you made her laugh when she was in a bad mood, how you cooked for her when she was overworked or sick. She will hold these close to her heart and will hold the person who comes into her life next to the same standards. You can still be a good friend to her after things end between you two, instead of someone who she has to get over in order to move on with her life.

4. She stays with you no matter what:

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Sometimes it may seem that a woman is staying in an abusive relationship on purpose or wonder why she just doesn’t end it. However, you have to understand that things are complicated. Women, since they are very young, are taught that if a boy is being mean or rude to her, it means he likes her.

5. Never Make Her Feel Like You Are Taking Her for Granted:

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Hence she learns to associate that kind of behavior with affection and it effects her future relationships. It is also possible that she fell for a person when he was pretending to be nice and only after getting deeply involved did he start to become manipulative and abusive. By that time it becomes difficult to get out of a relationship as you become so used to having that person around that you start to miss them when they’re not there thus you stay with him hoping that he will change or revert to the person you fell in love with in the first place.

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6. Don’t Let Her Forget You:

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Gradually, however, a woman does start to see the cracks in her relationship which will lead her to fall out of love with that person.

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Slowly but surely. Any warm feelings she has for that person will slowly fade away, she will grow distant and cold until finally.

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She realizes that she deserves better than a person who doesn’t appreciate or love her. At this point, it will be too late to heal your relationship and it will come crumbling down.

7. Take Responsibility For Your Actions and Act Like An Adult:

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Only when she leaves you will you realize how much better she made your life. How she was a source of light in the bleak dark hole that your life is. You will beg her to stay but it will be too late.

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You will wish you had appreciated her when she was in your life and had tried to be a better person but to no avail.

8. Realize that one is enough:

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Being in a healthy, loving relationship with someone is one of the most beautiful experiences in one’s life. It is also very easy to take things for granted when they’re good. Only to have the sad realization of what it could have been hit you later.

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All it takes is a little effort and good communication to make sure you do not let go of someone who could have been your ‘the one’ just because you were too self-absorbed to notice your partner’s needs.

9. Schedule Quality Time With Her:

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However, it is not implied that you let yourself be treated badly either, men or women both can be abusive in a relationship. It means that you are open to communication and compromise. Be kind and nurturing but do not let anyone walk all over you. Be respectful but do not tolerate indignation towards yourself either.

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Just treat your partner how you would want to be treated and with mutual respect and love you will be able to spend a happy fulfilled life with the love of your life.

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Article by: BornRealist

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